Many people think that finding an escort and having sex with her is as easy as calling her, giving her the money, and then getting laid.
But newbies who decide to find and date an escort realize there are some unanticipated pitfalls and landmines with escorts. Some of the things they start to realize:
Your challenge with escorts is to avoid the pitfalls. I have the best answers and solutions.
- What if she is a cop? Can I get arrested?
- What if she robs me or her pimp beats me up?
- Why is she asking me for my employment information?
- Why do I get hung up on?
- When do I give her the money?
When these thoughts start to enter your mind, you realize that the world of escorts is more complicated than you originally thought.
Well, I’m here to demystify this world and help you find an escort who will satisfy your sexual fantasies and needs.
There are five simple steps to dating an escort:
- Finding a good escort
- Preparing to call her
- Calling her
- Preparing for your date
- Dating her
***Btw, if you have a specific question or issue, email me at “[email protected] and I’ll try to answer it as soon as I can***
Step 1 – Find an escort who you are attracted to AND who is a good provider
Finding the “RIGHT” escort for you at the outset is the most important step of the process
This step is the most important in the process. Selecting a good escort will make the remaining steps a lot easier. Obviously, selecting a bad escort will make the following steps hell, and perhaps unrecoverable.
Click here for an in-depth, detailed explanation on how to find an escort.
But here are the basics. You must first look at where escorts advertise. The largest sites are:
There could be smaller regional sites in your area (and they are good resources if they exist), but the larger sites are a good place to start.
When looking at the postings, you’ll quickly find escorts who you are attracted to. But you also want to look out for possible scam escorts. Here are some warning signs to look for:
If her picture is “too good to be true”, she probably is, but not always. Good research will reveal the truth.
- Studio pictures – this sometimes (not always) indicates that it could be a bait and switch, where the picture is not really her
- Multiple listings – if her listing exist in multiple cities, this could indicate a scam
If you are still concerned about your selection, here is an advanced strategy for verifying if she is a good escort or not .
Step 2: Get prepared for your call
I cannot stress this enough: the purpose of the call is to set your appointment, nothing else. A common newbie mistake is asking her questions about different sex acts during your phone call. This is a huge no-no. And if she is an undercover cop, you’re heading down an easy road of getting arrested.
For the quick, professional advise on how to NEVER get arrested, click here.
Before calling the escort, you’ll want to get three things ready:
- Date, time, length, and venue of the appointment
Proper research is essential not just to protect yourself and to get the woman you want, but also to secure a date with her too. Not being prepared will jeopardize your changes with her (and most escorts).
Research as much as you can about your chosen woman. Most good escorts will have a website with general information and answers to commonly asked questions. With her ad, along with her website, you should find most of your questioned answered.
If you want to take an advanced approach, check with review sites for reviews of her from your fellow hobbyists. There many review sites out there, but one specific site is better than the rest. Click here for a video on exactly how I used this review sites to find an escort.
Date, time, length, and venue of the appointment
You should know the when and where of your preferred appointment, and a few alternate times if your first choice is not available. The more open your schedule is, the more likely it is that you’ll get an appointment.
Also, time is one of the elements determines the cost of the appointment. The average date is 1 hour, although spending an evening with each other is typically very enjoyable with higher end escorts.
The other two elements that determines cost is how beautiful she is and the “level of service” she provides.
If you want more detailed knowledge, download my “Expected Cost Guide”. I also give a video explanation of the various cost of escort donation fees. Download it here.
Being prepared to get verified is one of the key things to getting an appointment. But if you are a newbie with no references, this can be a challenge. But there are ways to overcome it.
This is one that tends to throw off newbies. When an escort asks for references, they are looking for one (or two) of these three things: 1) two escorts that you’ve seen in past, 2) employment information, or 3) verification credentials.
Obviously if you are a newbie, you will not have two escort references. That means you’re down to either employment information, or verification credentials.
The reason why escorts will screen you is because they want to make sure you are not a serial killer or psycho. Verification is one method women will use to protect themselves.
Click here for detailed advice on escort verification sites.
Step 3: Making the call
Being calm, cool, confident, and collected is my #1 tip and strategy when calling an escort. When calling her, treat her like one of your buddies, but keep your call short.
If you’d like to see a video on how a gentleman called an escort, click here.
Calling an escort is where the rubber hits the road. Again, I cannot stress enough, the purpose of the call is to set the appointment, nothing else.
If you’ve prepared yourself enough, this should be quite simple. Call her, get the appointment, and get off the phone.
My best recommendation for this is to treat her as if she was one of your friends or buddies. Use a calm, casual, confident voice. Then get the appointment and get off the phone.
Try to make the phone call reasonably short. Do not try to engage her into a conversation, and do not ask her questions that you should already know the answer to.
Check out this video on how a gentleman called an escort. He did some things right, but also made some mistakes. Click here to watch the video.
The two-call system applies to incall situations (you are going to her). Most escorts will not give you their exact location in your first phone call. Rather, they will give you an approximate location, like major cross streets. When you get close to their location, you call them again stating that you are arriving, and this is typically where they give you their exact location.
Sometimes, it may be even a three-call system. In your second call, she may give you the hotel she is staying at, but she may not give you her room number until you actually arrive.
Accept the information she gives you in the initial phone calls. Do not force her to give an exact location. Doing so could cause her to cancel the appointment.
Remember, the purpose of the call is to set the appointment. In this video, I will show you how this gentleman called an escort. I will also share with you some mistakes he made so you can avoid them when calling an escort. Click here to watch the video.
Step 4: Prepare for your date
Preparation is slightly different depending on whether your date with the escort is an incall or an outcall. Incall is less work than outcall because in outcall, you are the host. I will cover incall first.
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